Here is what to do if you think he likes you but is shy to ask you out

Can a man be too shy to ask a woman out? 

Have you ever been in this situation: you've been talking to a man and everything has been going fine. The conversations seem to be consistent, he checks up on you, is "there" for you but the only problem is it's been weeks or months and he hasn't said anything.

Maybe he is a shy person 🤷‍♀️.

Let's cut to the chase. Erase that fallacy from your mind. Men are designed to go after what they want and if a man is not asking you out, HE DOES NOT WANT YOU.

No man is too shy to go after what he wants. I'm sorry to break this to you but it's the truth.  "I am not ready", "let's go with the flow", "let's take things slow", etc. all mean the same thing: I don't want you.

Also read: Are you making this costly dating mistake? 

Do yourself a favor and distance yourself from any man trying to stir up your emotions without CLEARLY defining what he wants. Your emotions should only be for the man who meets these criteria here. If he is not asking you out, he does not want you. It's that simple. 

The reason a man will keep you around without asking you out may be:

📍He just wants sex 

📍He wants to keep you around as an option 

And honey, you are too wonderfully and fearfully made to be anybody's option.  

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Here's what you should do.

Stop entertaining him. I don't believe ladies should ask the 'what are we' question. If he did not ask you out or state his intentions, you both are nothing. 

If you have gotten your emotions involved and this is difficult for you, sis, that's why you have God. Ask him to take those feelings away from you. 

You are a gift, don't forget that. 

Hey sis, thank you for coming on this journey with me. I love to read your comments, please drop one or two 😉