If you are on this feminine journey, you can attest to it being such an empowering and liberating path. Your husband should be 3 things to you. This right here is perhaps the most important element that will influence and determine how you submit, respect and regard a man. Submission has been a controversial topic for so long! Understandably so but it shouldn't have to be. So, come in and shut the door, sis. Of course, you know that as a godly feminine woman, above all else, submission in marriage is God's command. Women struggle with submission for a few reasons and the devil likes it this way but I will not leave you in the dark. Read on because this will determine if you will submit or not.
Before we get to the secret, let's address why women find it hard to submit.
Women struggle with submission because of a lack of understanding about submission. Submission is not a show of weakness, it is a sign of strength. It takes a strong, empowered woman to submit. You can't fully say you are submitting if you are financially dependent on others for example, you don't have a choice you do what they say because they fund it. Submitting in this case is when you can fund it but choose to obey.
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Some other women struggle with submission because they are still following the world's ideas and trends, not God's instructions. The world says wokeness is being "independent", thinking you are equal to, arguing with and disrespecting men. Dressing indecently a.k.a my body is my body and other related deceptions. God says wisdom is submission. It is the key to unlocking fulfilment in marriage, everlasting care and princess treatment and the formula to having your husband's heart forever.
Stop following pages and accounts that carry only bad news. All those negative stories you read online about people that laid poor foundations that were against God's will, did things wrong and followed their own way is not an example for Godly women to follow. They will constantly poison your mind.
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For you to submit, apart from understanding God's command on it, marrying a man that has these 3 things will make it easier.
Your husband should be 3 things to you; your father, your lover, and your mentor. This right here is perhaps the most important element that will influence and determine how you submit, respect and regard a man. Your father - to lead, protect you and take care of you. Your lover - to be affectionate, romantically and sexually meet your needs. Your mentor - to guide, direct and teach you. Very important that the man you marry is these 3 things to you. Run away from men you don't respect and admire. Entertain only men you respect. Don't pick a man you have a hard time respecting, it will not change in marriage.
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Sis, I hope you gained a lot from this post. The Lord is with you, you will not fail. I pray that you continue to grow in knowledge, wisdom and understanding.
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